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A Very Sweaty Evening Spent In Hospital!

Discussion in 'Get it off your chest' started by MrOvershoot, Jul 25, 2019.

  1. Tadpole

    Tadpole Super Moderator Staff Member Mod/Admin

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    So very sorry to read this news, no words can express the feeling of loosing a loved one.
    Your world for the present has I know come to sudden halt, when all about you carries on.
    My thoughts are with you, I most sincerely wish you comfort in the coming days & weeks.

    t ..
     
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    I've been dreading this post, Nige.

    My arm is round your shoulder in every way but physically.

    I'm not the most religious person in the world but I believe enough to think we can't be here for nothing. On that basis, I pray that wherever Carolyn is right now she is amazed and delighted to find herself there, free from suffering and knowing you'll be together again some day.

    So many kind thoughts of strength to you, friend.
     
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    Sorry x
     
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  4. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill CO2 Firearm fan.

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    Very very sorry Nige. Carolyn RIP.
     
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    So sorry for your loss.
     
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    Mr overshoot
    Although I don’t know you my thoughts are with you
     
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    So sorry to read this Nige...I too have been following your thread ...I lost someone very close to me not long ago...ALL our collective thoughts are with you..don't be afraid to shed a bucket full of tear's...take care fella & feel free to post on here..there are some great/good lad's who will try help get you through this awful time...regards,Norman aka,Chris.
     
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    So sorry to hear this news Nigel.

    Gary
     
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    My deepest condolences to you and your family.
     
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    I'm so very sorry to hear this Nigel - a terrible loss for you. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

    No words can decrease the pain you're feeling, but do take comfort in the fact that Carolyn is no longer suffering.

    Your pain will never truly stop, but you will learn to live with it and it will become bearable - it just takes time.
     
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    So very sorry for your loss my deepest condolences.
     
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    So very sorry Nigel. We have never met, but i've been watching your thread silently because I did not have the right words. I still don't have the right words, but my thoughts are with you and your family.
     
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    I am so sorry Nigel you must feel lost and empty. On another level I am glad that it is over for you both. I wish that I could help you but the only thing that can do that is time. Bless you Nigel you are a realy nice bloke and I wish I could be of help to you but only time can do that.
     
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    So sorry to hear of your terrible loss Nigel and our thoughts are with you. All very best wishes, Mark and Helen
     
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    So sorry to hear this. RIP. Take care mate!!!!
    Deepest condolences to you and your family.
     
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    Very sorry to hear this, though it sounds like it was sadly inevitable.
    I hope she was kept calm and comfortable as the end approached.
    It's an awful time, but it will get easier to bear.
    I wish you all the best, look after yourself.
     
  17. MrOvershoot

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    I can't say how much your support & kind thoughts have helped me, and that is the truth words can't express my feelings at the moment.
    How someone so caring and innocent could be put through so much pain & suffering and yet remain so positive is a testament to the human spirit of a true hero
     
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    Some people are just remarkable, and it sounds like your wife was one of those.
    My condolences, happy to talk on pm or phone (pm for number) if it helps, sometimes it helps to have have someone unconnected.
     
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    You're very much in the thoughts of many of us on here right now, Nige. I wish your situation could be resolved by brute force....we'd all be jumping into our cars and heading in your direction mob-handed. Not being able to do that makes us feel powerless and frustrated....the only alternative is to say we're here for you at all times when you're able to look in. Like I said to you before....strength in numbers, friend.
     
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