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Divorce wife

This is a discussion on Divorce wife within the Get it off your chest forums, part of the General category; Originally Posted by tankman seen all that. there is always two sides to the story.we only have one You`ve got ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tankman View Post
    seen all that. there is always two sides to the story.we only have one
    You`ve got a problem!


    This can be saved! Its the short sharp shock thats needed, its the only way. Dig in and tell her your for the off. Explain as best you can to the kids why, be as gentle and as honest as you can. When the penny drops your wife`s attitude might surprise you. This could take a few months though.
    She can control her temper/moods and respect you. You have allowed this to happen, you need to take control.

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    On a purely professional note - there are many men out there who are victims of domestic violence who keep quiet as they are too macho to tell anyone. It takes guts to admit there's a problem and you're a victim but do it - TELL SOMEONE - that way you can get help for your wife which she obviously needs, and maybe some counselling for both of you to learn how to cope and deal with things. For the sake of the children get this done sooner rather than later. As someone has already said, they will be picking up on the atmosphere at home and be VERY confused as to which one of you is the one to believe. Don't let this tear you and your family apart.
    GOOD LUCK
    (pm me if you want some website addresses etc to contact )
    Ken

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    not been on in a while but read this and got deja vu, in january i got some domestic abuse off my ex, i got punched slapped and when i did what you did and got a hold of her arms and she also started to headbutt me so i left the house and her life, best decision i ever made, obviously that is nothing like acctually being married and having kids involved so i have no idea what that feels like but from what i have experienced i know it feels s***

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    get out of it man your kids will be damaged if you dont

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